SNLA431 January 2024 DP83TC812R-Q1 , DP83TC812S-Q1
Below are some common culprits if link up cannot be achieved.
One link partner must be in MDI master mode while the other is in MDI slave mode. Verify this is the case by reading register 0x1834 on both PHYs.
Unless link up is intended to be initially blocked upon power up of PHY, verify the device is in autonomous mode by confirming register 0x18B bit[6] = 1.
Verify the PHY is not asleep by probing the INH pin and confirming the voltage is equal to Vsleep.
Connect a different automotive ethernet cable to confirm the cable length, type, or health is not preventing the link up.
Verify the script given in SNLA389 has been written to the PHY.